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Trans Relationships

Media featuring trans and gender-diverse (TGD) people who are in relationships with, or are attracted to, other TGD people.

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Shar, a dark-skinned non-binary person in the show Queer As Folk, sitting upright in a hospital bed. They have a short, closely-cropped afro which is dyed bright green, and are wearing a colourful, striped shirt over a white hospital gown. They are holding a baby in their arms and smiling.
Show
2022
United States of America

Queer As Folk

Shar, a non-binary person played by American actor CG, is in a relationship with a trans woman and begins this drama series giving birth to twins.

Elijah and Billy in the show Bros Before, played by trans actors Radcliffe Adler and Marten Katze, embracing closely and looking into each other's eyes. One trans man, with curly ginger hair, has a tattooed arm and is wearing a green singlet. The other trans man, with curly dyed blond hair, is shirtless and has multiple tattoos. Both have stubble and are light-skinned. Black and white photos and posters are visible on the blue wall in the background.
Short Film
2022
United States of America

Bros Before

Two trans men, played by American trans actors Radcliffe Adler and Marten Katze, become involved in a love triangle in this indie short film.

Johannes Edenteg, a dark-skinned trans man, standing outdoors next to Wilhelmina Rudin, a light-skinned trans woman. He is shorter than her, with a buzzcut, dark brown eyes, and a wide, happy smile. He is wearing a collared white suit shirt. She has her arm around him and is also smiling happily. She is brushing her long, brown hair behind her ear. She is wearing a back jacket over a red chequered shirt. She is wearing wire-rimmed glasses, a smart watch, a necklace, and subtle makeup. A forest is visible in the blurred background. It is a sunny day.
Interview
2021
Sweden (Sverige)

They are a TRANSGENDER COUPLE

Oliver Jähnke, a Swedish trans guy, interviews Johannes Edenteg, a trans man who is in a relationship with a trans woman named Wilhelmina Rudin. Alongside his fiancé, Johannes discusses coming out as trans in the context of being a darker-skinned adopted child, falling in love, dating, and the benefits of dating a fellow trans person.

Kei, a trans man played by Japanese trans male actor Chihaya Kadota, in the short film Between Us. He is walking in a hot springs, holding a towel to his chest, looking into the distance with a neutral or stressed expression. He has damp, black, short hair.
Short Film
2021
Japan (日本), Australia

Between Us

Kei, a trans man played by Japanese trans male actor Chihaya Kadota, finds that he has different goals to his non-binary partner Erin, played by Australian non-binary actor Mariella Kai (alternatively referred to as Kai Pacey). Kei wishes to live in rural Japan, whereas Erin wants to live in Tokyo city.

Three students sitting together, including a trans man and a trans woman. The trans man has brown skin and long, curly black hair, and the trans woman is lighter-skinned with long, wavy pink hair. He is wearing light purple clothing, and the woman is wearing a cream patterned top.
Show
2021
England, Sudan (جمهورية السودان)

Sex Education (S3, S4)

Seasons 3 and 4 of this teenage-focused drama feature Roman (a trans man played by British trans actor Felix Mufti), Abbi (a trans woman played by British trans actress Anthony Lexa), and Cal (a non-binary person played by Sudanese-American non-binary actor Dua Saleh). Roman and Abbi are in a relationship.

A trans man named Jake Graf and his trans wife Hannah Graf in the documentary Our Baby A Modern Miracle. The pair are light-skinned and wearing patterned white hospital gowns. Hannah has an arm around Jake; she has long, brown hair dyed with blonde tips, and is holding a hand over her mouth in shock. Jake has short, black hair and a black beard, and is staring with an emotional expression.
Documentary
2020
England

Our Baby

Jake Graf (an English trans man) is filmed alongside his wife (Hannah Graf, an English trans woman) as the pair conceive a baby via a surrogate, using Jake's frozen reproductive material.

Two trans people, who are in a relationship, sitting on a couch during the video Falling In Love With My Trans Partner. One partner is darker-skinned, with a short, closely-cropped black afro, wearing a black vest over a red t-shirt, with black jeans. The other partner is lighter-skinned, with shoulder-length brown hair which is partly dyed yellow, and a brown beard; this person is wearing a black shirt with an eye illustration on it, and grey trousers.
Interview
2020
United States of America

Falling in Love with My Trans Partner

Multiple trans people, including trans men and transmasculine people, are interviewed with their partners. The pairs discuss sex, romance, and love.

Gray Tal, a trans man played by American non-binary actor Ian Alexander, standing with Adira Tal, a non-binary person played by American non-binary actor Blu del Barrio. The pair are resting their foreheads together and smiling, holding hands. The background of the image is darkness. Gray is wearing a leather jacket and has black hair partly dyed blue and slicked back. Adira has short, black hair and is wearing a long-sleeved white shirt.
Show
2020
United States of America

Star Trek: Discovery (S3 Onwards)

Gray Tal, a trans man played by American non-binary actor Ian Alexander, is kept alive after death through his connection with Adira Tal, a non-binary person played by American non-binary actor Blu del Barrio.

Malthe and Esben, two light-skinned trans men from the film Silence and Swords. Both have had top surgery, with their scars visible, and have short, wavy, dark hair. They are play-fighting with sticks at the seaside.
Documentary
2020
Denmark (Danmark)

Vi slås med sværd (Silence and Swords)

Two Danish trans men, Malthe and Esben, camp, skinny-dip, and masturbate together in the wilderness.

Micah Lee, a trans man played by Chinese-American trans male actor Leo Sheng, in the show The L Word: Generation Q. He has brown skin and short, black hair. He is wearing a blue t-shirt. Curtains are visible in the blurred background. Somebody off-camera is resting their hand on his shoulder, and he is smiling at them.
Show
2019
United States of America, China (中國)

The L Word: Generation Q

Micah Lee, a trans man played by Chinese-American trans male actor Leo Sheng, explores relationships with men and women while also navigating infidelity, conflict in friendships, and biphobia.

Freddy McConnell, an English trans man, in the documentary Seahorse. He is lying back in his bed, head resting against a pink pillow, gesturing and speaking. He is light-skinned, with short, ginger hair, and ginger facial hair. He is wearing a grey shirt and black-rimmed glasses.
Documentary
2019
England

Seahorse: The Dad Who Gave Birth

Freddy McConnell, an English trans man, is filmed throughout the process of pausing testosterone hormone therapy in order to undergo artifical insemination and become pregnant, ultimately giving birth to a son. The documentary also addresses the hate and bigotry he experiences as a result.

Shawn, an American trans man of colour in the 2019 documentary Born to Be. He is sitting indoors, wearing a black cap and a black hoodie. He has a black beard and dark brown eyes. Yellow walls and a printed framed piece of art is visible in the blurred background behind him. He is looking into the distance with a neutral expression.
Documentary
2019
United States of America

Born to Be

Multiple trans people are filmed as they have gender-related surgery in America. This includes a non-binary person named Jordan, who has phalloplasty using a graft from their arm, and Shawn, a self-identified "stealth male" who undergoes an experimental type of phalloplasty intended to provide increased sensation and a different appearance.

El Cook, a Black American trans man sitting indoors, mid-speaking. He has short, black hair and black facial hair. He is wearing a v-neck blue shirt. An indoor plant and household clutter are visible in the blurred background.
Documentary
2018
United States of America

TransMilitary

American trans men El Cook and Logan Ireland are filmed as they advocate to end the ban on trans and gender-diverse people serving in the U.S.A. military. They are filmed alongside other trans servicepeople, advocates, friends, and family.

Bianca and Nick Bowser, a trans woman and trans man, sitting indoors. They are both light-skinned. Nick is smiling slightly, and Bianca has a neutral or stern expression. Nick has blue eyes and short, brown hair, and is wearing a light blue collared shirt. Bianca has long, dark brown hair and brown eyes, and is wearing a turtleneck green sweater.
Interview
2015
United States of America

Transgender Parents Who Conceived Two Sons Naturally

Nick Bowser, an American trans man, is interviewed alongside his American trans wife Bianca Bowser. The pair discuss growing up, transitioning, and conceiving their two sons together. 

A black-and-white photograph showing a dark-skinned butch lesbian standing against a dark grey background. The butch is wearing a black hat, a black suit jacket, a white suit shirt, a nose ring, black-rimmed glasses, and a grey tie. The butch's expression is neutral or firm. The photograph was taken by butch photographer SD Holman, as part of their BUTCH Not Like the Other Girls series.
Book (Non-Fiction)
2014
United States of America

BUTCH: Not Like the Other Girls

Butches, photographed and interviewed by American genderqueer butch SD Holman, provide insights into gender, sexuality, love, and butch diversity.

A Black trans man named Syrus, and a White trans man named Herhsel, in the documentary Transgender Parents. Syrus has long dreadlocks and brown skin, is wearing black-rimmed glasses and a t-shirt, and is smiling happily. Hershel is bald, with grey facial hair, wearing grey-rimmed glasses and a collared blue shirt. He is looking up with a neutral or thoughtful expression, mid-speech.
Documentary
2013
United States of America, England

Transgender Parents

Two American trans men (Syrus and Nik) are interviewed about their relationship and family, and Syrus's experience pausing testosterone in order to carry their baby. Hershel, a British trans man, is interviewed alongside his adult son about his transition and family. There are also several other trans interviewees. I highly recommend watching this documentary.

Tom and Scott Moore, two light-skinned trans men, in the documentary My Dad is Pregnant. Scott is pregnant, with Tom holding Scott's belly. Both have dark, shaved hair, and dark facial hair. Tom is wearing a collared blue shirt.
Documentary
2011
United States of America

My Dad is Pregnant

Scott Moore, an American trans man, chooses to become pregnant with a sperm donor. He is filmed alongside his trans male husband, Tom, and their two adopted sons.

Two light-skinned English trans men sitting on a couch together, grinning widely. Both have short, dark hair. The man on the left is wearing a blue flannel shirt over a blue patterned t-shirt, and black shorts. The man on the right is wearing a black t-shirt with text on it, and blue jeans.
Documentary
2011
England

Sam and Evan: From Girls to Men

Sam and Evan, two young English trans men in a relationship, move in together and are interviewed alongside their families.

Dréd, a Black drag king in the documentary Venus Boyz. He is wearing a black afro wig and has false facial hair drawn on his face. He is wearing a leather jacket and sunglasses.
Documentary
2002
United States of America, Austria (Österreich)

Venus Boyz

Multiple drag kings are interviewed about their motivations for doing drag, their identities, their medical transitions, and their understandings of gender. Interviewees include cis women, trans men, non-binary people, Jack Halberstam, Hans Scheirl, and Del LaGrace Volcano; an intersex non-binary person who is transitioning on testosterone and doesn't mind being read as a man. 

Robert Eads, an American transsexual man, standing indoors in the documentary Southern Comfort. He is light-skinned with short, light brown hair, and light brown facial hair. He is wearing wire-rimmed sunglasses, a cross necklace, a button-down blue shirt, bracelets, and rings. He is looking directly at the viewer, smiling slightly.
Documentary
2001
United States of America

Southern Comfort

Robert Eads, an American transsexual man, is filmed alongside his trans friends and trans female partner in the final months of his life, after being denied cancer treatment by both mainstream doctors and a trans clinic.

Tatsu, a Japanese Onnabe trans man, in the documentary Shinjuku Boys. He is sitting indoors next to his Japanese girlfriend Tomoe, the pair smiling happily. He has short, brown hair, and is wearing a grey t-shirt. Tomoe is wearing a white t-shirt and has shoulder-length straight brown hair.
Documentary
1995
Japan (日本)

Shinjuku Boys

Gaish, Kazuki, and Tatsu are three Onabe, which is a term used by some Japanese trans men and other Japanese gender-diverse people who were assigned female at birth. Tatsu, a trans man on testosterone, is interviewed alongside his cis female partner named Tomoe, and Kazuki is interviewed alongside his trans female partner named Kumi. Gaish describes themself as being neither a woman nor a man.

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